My biggest fear is we start seeing copy cats and more people doing the same. The newest story I read said that on the morning she realized her husband and son would learn the family was losing their house, Carlene Ballderama faxed a note to the mortgage company, then went to the basement and shot herself. She wrote on the suicide note to the mortgage company "I hope you're more compassionate with my husband than you were with me."
There is help out their for everyone. Please watch these warning signs if you feel loved ones are getting desperate about their finances.
-Beware of them being lethargic or withdrawn. If they make comments about being worthless or if they start gibing possessions away. Offer them to get help even if it's uncomfortable to do so.
-If you are feeling anxious, talk to someone. Private burdens weigh more than shared ones.
-Discuss practical options.
-Stick to normal routines, including regular sleeping and eating patterns.
Please know that there are resources available 24/7. If you are feeling desperate please seek help immediately. Your life is worth more than a stupid house. In a crisis, you can call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255); Homeowners HOPE, a national hot line for foreclosures, at 1-888-995-HOPE (4673).
Additional help is available from the National Foundation for Credit Counseling at 1-866-481-6322. The foundation can offer advice on debt counseling and make referrals to other sources.
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